Sonia Majumder

Love is a journey—a vibrant, evolving dance between two people learning, growing, and discovering life’s beauty together. It’s not just about the spark of the first moments, but about building something lasting, joyful, and deeply meaningful.

As I reflect on love, grief, and happiness, I’m reminded that true connection requires courage, kindness, and a commitment to growth—both individually and as partners. This is a story not just about surviving hard times, but about thriving beyond them, hand in hand.

The Art of Loving

Alain de Botton’s The Course of Love beautifully captures how love matures over time. His story of Rabih and Kristen teaches us that love is a skill—a practice that grows richer with patience, understanding, and shared experience. It’s normal to face challenges or moments of doubt, but it’s how we navigate them that strengthens the bond.

De Botton reminds us that love is about embracing imperfections, forgiving ourselves and others, and continually choosing each other every day. Love grows deeper when we welcome vulnerability as a sign of strength, not weakness. This resonates deeply with me because it shows that love is not just a feeling—it’s a choice we make together to build a joyful life.

Transforming Grief Into Growth

Life isn’t always easy, and grief is a part of our story—whether from loss, change, or disappointment. But grief also invites healing, self-discovery, and renewed appreciation for life’s precious moments. I’ve found that letting myself feel fully, while gently choosing hope and joy, creates space for happiness to bloom again.

Instead of holding onto pain, I’m learning to release it with gratitude for the lessons it brings. This doesn’t erase the hard parts but softens them and allows love to shine through even stronger.

Finding Joy with Insights

Mo Gawdat’s Solve for Happiness transformed how I see happiness. Despite his professional success and a loving family, Gawdat realized happiness is not about external achievements—it’s about mindset and perspective. His formula:

Happiness = Your Perception of Events – Your Expectations

helps us understand that by adjusting how we interpret life, we can cultivate lasting joy. Recognizing and gently correcting our mind’s “blind spots” allows us to embrace reality with kindness and curiosity, instead of resistance.

For me, this means focusing on gratitude, enjoying the present, and choosing optimism even when life feels uncertain. It’s a daily practice that brings lightness and peace, reminding me that happiness grows from within.

Nurturing a Love That Lasts

Building a loving relationship means creating a space where both people feel safe, seen, and supported. It’s about celebrating the everyday—shared laughter, quiet moments, and simple acts of care.

I believe in a love that’s adventurous yet steady, passionate yet gentle. A love that invites us both to be our best selves and face life’s ups and downs as a team.

Joy in the Little Things

Sometimes, it’s the smallest things that bring the most joy—a cozy breakfast shared, a long walk by the water, a heartfelt conversation. These simple rituals fill life with warmth and meaning.

I’ve learned to cherish solo moments, too—little dates with myself where I recharge and remember what brings me peace and happiness. This balance of togetherness and self-care is the foundation of a vibrant, lasting love.

A Future Filled With Promise

As I look ahead, I’m excited by the possibilities that love holds. It’s not about perfection, but about building a life where we can both grow, dream, and support each other endlessly.

With every step, I’m embracing the joy of loving deeply and openly, knowing that the best relationships are built on trust, respect, and shared happiness. I want to continue this beautiful journey with someone who values growth, kindness, and genuine connection as much as I do.